The 5 Deadly Fears of Loss (and what we gain by letting go)…

As I contemplated divorce more than a decade ago, I encountered a number of fears and uncertainties with the idea ending a 15 year-long marriage. Although I was pretty sure it’s what I wanted, I found that fear hides in the most unexpected places and in abundance. Furthermore, it’s not something one overcomes once, butContinue reading “The 5 Deadly Fears of Loss (and what we gain by letting go)…”

Deserving better…

It is often said that children learn by example and, specifically, by what they observe in the actions of their parents.  A son who sees his father abuse his mother has a good chance of repeating the behavior with his own spouse.  A daughter who watches her mother be abused is at risk of beingContinue reading “Deserving better…”

Lifting a foot…

My experience was that I had to change something. I had to let go. I had to let go of whatever hopes and dreams to which I was still clinging and create something new. The old hopes and dreams were all dead and I knew it, but I still had been clinging to the ideaContinue reading “Lifting a foot…”